This is a short post in response to some things discussed in our group.
Family experts of every discipline agree: being solely focused on your children's happiness makes them, their siblings and their parents, both mom and dad, insecure!
This isn't a "dis" of attachment parenting. Attachment experts point to the importance of a secure base from which children can explore the world. Attunement can happen best when our own needs are met first. Then we wont resent the demands of children. We will respond to them from a place of fulfillment. Give your kids a secure foundation of a loving marriage. One of the most important things we can give our children is the security of knowing that mom and dad have a passion for each other and a zest for life.
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